Here is the continuation of the article dedicated to the frequently mistakes made by Western men when being engaged in Ukrainian on-line dating.
5. Not doing proper research. This means you need to find a reliable, legitimate and trustworthy agency, finding out you can about the woman you are interested in, her country, culture, history, background, traditions, etc. These things are really crucial for you success. First of all, find honest service and educate yourself on how to contact a woman and impress her. Without a research you will spend your money and count on fortune.
6. Send wrong photographs. There is no need of sending your lady pictures of your house, car or other possessions. If you do so, you risk attracting the wrong type of women. Honest ladies from Ukraine are more concerned bout your personality and your heart than your possessions. If you show off with your material prosperity, she will consider you a shallow and insecure man. Remember these women are different from their Western counterparts and you don’t need to impress them with these things. You better show them your sensitive side, the way you feel on this or that matter and what things you like doing.
7. Considering your Ukrainian lady is after a visa. If you really have these thoughts on your mind, why are you talking to her? This is ok if you are interested in marriage as a business part. You need to understand this is a woman, looking for family happiness, your love and respect and not just free tickets to the USA or Canada. Just think of it this way, would you leave your house, your job, your parents, your friends, your language, culture, standards of living, country, etc. just to improve your life style? Keep in mind she needs a husband, not a saver!
8. Considering Ukrainian lady your trophy wife. Ukrainian women are as tough as nails. In their country they deal with drunken fathers, brothers, boyfriends, husbands, who are not faithful to them and waste money not thinking of supporting their family. Be sure, many of the Ukrainian women have come through making tough choices in their life. If your lady understands you are seeing her as your “trophy wife” you will have to deal with her sharp claws. Look for a life-time partner, a friend, lover, mother to your kids, but not someone to control and dominate over. You will fail trying to control a Ukrainian woman as she is independent and strong-willed.
9. Not asking your lady questions. If you are looking for a serious relationship, your future wife, and not just someone to pass time with, you need to show your interest to the lady. For the most part Ukrainian women are honest, open and serious and deserve respect. If you don’t ask her questions on her life, interests, hobbies, weekends, etc. she will think you are not serious. Then no wonder you have been dumped! Ask many questions. You can also repeat them in different ways to get the answers and compare them. This is another great way to protect yourself from Ukrainian dating scam.
10. Not having a back-up plan. Well, apparently it is a very huge mistake. You never know what can happen when you travel to Ukraine or other former Soviet Union countries. What you can really count on is something unexpected could happen. Remember you will be in another country where you don’t speak their language and don’t know directions, and place and, besides, Ukrainian women are mysterious and unexpected themselves. Don’t count on your previously written letters and the number of photos you have previously exchanged, when you will meet in person, things will change. It can even happen this way: you look at each other and realize it won’t work. So, it is highly suggested not to make a trip just to meet one woman, meet several ladies to choose from. Yes, here you will need to forget about being gentleman. If things still don’t work out, contact the local agency to meet other women and not waste your time being in FSU.
Keep all this in mind and good luck in your search!
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