Relationship breakdowns are extremely normal and common because the divorce rate is so high in western countries. Now let’s talk about how to recover from a relationship breakdown with a Ukrainian woman.
Be more selfish. After ending the relationship with a Ukrainian lady, you should begin to be more selfish. Maybe you had to walk on eggshells when you were with her, but now you don’t have to. After the breakup, your life is about you and you only if you don’t have kids. Therefore, you should reframe the situation and see it as an opportunity to become a better version of yourself and really look after yourself. Find the inner asshole and allow yourself to be more self-involved. Always put yourself first because if you are unhappy and grumpy, you can’t look after anyone else. So, you’d better schedule some “me time” every day to relax and enjoy yourself.
If the relationship failed, don’t miss the lesson. Don’t assume that you already know why the relationship with the Ukrainian girl didn’t work out. Also, don’t assume that you know how to deal with similar situations next time. After the relationship breakdown, you must learn something from it. Is this Ukrainian beauty a narcissist? Does she have borderline personality disorder? Is she a psychopath? Read some books on these topics and you’ll find the truth. Then in the future, you will know how to avoid women with dangerous personality disorders and protect yourself. A few good books are Dodging Energy Vampires (by Christiane Northrup) and Emotional Freedom (by Judith Orloff).
Ask yourself, “What did I do wrong?” Don’t blame your ex for everything. You also need to analyse what you should have done differently in the relationship. At the end of the day, you can’t change others and you can only change yourself. Therefore, you should look at how you can improve yourself and become a better boyfriend next time in a new relationship.
Don’t give up on dating. That’s right, the relationship with this Ukrainian stunner didn’t work out. But it doesn’t mean you should give up dating. Once you’ve implemented the above-mentioned two key points in your life, you will be ready to date the next woman from Ukraine who can be the perfect wife for you. Yes, dating is taking a risk. But the biggest risk of all is doing nothing. Thus, you would be well-advised to keep looking for Ukrainian lovers who actually suit you. No matter you choose mail-order brides, online dating sites or meeting Ukrainian women through your social circle, you have to do something for your love life and make yourself happy in the long term. You are only young and attractive for so many years because youth doesn’t last long, so please cherish what you have when time is still on your side!
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